The Simple Guide to Orgasm – p4 – Stimulating the G-Spot and Cooling Down | Have The Best Sex Ever!

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Stimulating the G-Spot:

• Insert your middle finger (or two) into her vagina about 2 inches, with your palms upwards. Bend your fingers back so you can touch the inside front of the vaginal wall.

• Move your fingers gently back and forth, trying out different pressures. Eventually you want a constant pressure and to keep the movement going smoothly and steadily.

• Let your lover tell you what she likes and what she doesn’t. There’s no point doing something that annoys her, is there? Listen to her opinions and you’ll discover how to drive her crazy each and every time.

• Soon you’ll notice an area that’s rough, ribbed or slightly bumpy and feels different to other areas. That’s her G-Spot. While you move and play with it, it should become larger. When this happens ease off the pressure a bit.

• Increase her pleasure by touching her clit with your other hand or your thumb. Or try pushing down on her pubic bone, putting your other hand (palm down) over the center of her pubes.

• Touch the G-Spot with your index finger and stimulate her clit with your thumb. Massage the area between both fingers, making sure the whole area is nice and wet.

• It might happen that she’ll feel the urge to go for a pee. Don’t panic: with any luck she’ll experience her first female ejaculation!

• Your woman might not have an orgasm. Even so, there’s no need to worry. The point of the exercise is to experiment and work together on locating the G-Spot. It can take a few attempts before you get really good at it.

• For a bit of variation (once you get the hang of things), try stimulating her G-Spot while she’s having an orgasm, or immediately after she’s had one. Also try experimenting with different strokes, pressures, positions, etc. Be sure to get lots of feedback so you can both get the most pleasure and enjoyment out of it.

Cooling Down:

• When you feel you’ve done enough or your woman is exhausted, it’s time to finish off. Place a cupped hand over her vagina and another over her heart. Look her in the eyes and enjoy being together.

• Share your experiences and talk about what you both enjoyed, what felt best, what worked well and so on. Then discuss what you might try doing differently next time.

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Or keep reading:

• The Simple Guide to Orgasm – p1 – Preparation

• The Simple Guide to Orgasm – p2 – Getting it Going and Massage Time

• The Simple Guide to Orgasm – p3 – Time to Turn It Up and Find the G-Spot